For many men, certainly those in the Boomer and Civic generations, there are no combination of words that bring so much terror as “we need to talk.” Statistically, almost nothing good ever came from this beginning. Quite the opposite, it generally means that some cherished bad habit or habitual behavior is about to be called on the carpet. Almost certainly apologies and groveling will be involved. If every there ever was a time for a natural disaster to strike, this would be the time after hearing this phrase.
The explanation for the above scenario is simple. The ugly truth behind “we need to talk” is that in genuine relationships the participants regularly interact and communicate (so I have been informed) on a fairly intimate basis. These interactions are not comprised of clever or witty remarks, tired old lines or insincere representations. Such things would be disrespectful in nature. Unfortunately, while many individuals don’t want to be disrespectful, neither do they want to be enveloped by the emotional and intellectual responsibilities of a genuine relationship.
What, you ask, do these ramblings have to do with professional and business interactions within the real estate industry? The fact is that moving forward they will have everything to do with your business success because, as every expert in behavioral psychology can tell you, American businesses and consumers are now entering into the “Relationship era.”
The evidence of this transition is everywhere, but it is most apparent in the amazing shift that has recently occurred in mass media advertising in almost every segment of consumer marketing. Commercials, both print and electronic, for more and more major brands, are featuring interactions and testimony with real or fictitious consumers. Social media and consumer interactivity have become a major force in spreading the message and brand of successful companies and products. In other words your success may no longer be tied to what you have to say about your firm or its services but, rather, what your customers have to say about your services and more specifically, what quality and depth of experience they had while using your services.
As always the difficulty is in the details. What steps does a brokerage or even a team owner have to take to move into the relationship space? Here are six areas to consider:
- Honesty: Take the time to sit down and talk about why your firm exists and its value system. If you like the traditional process of pulling the wool over the consumer’s eyes, then you are probably not a good candidate for future success. If, on the other hand, you and your team would like to operate at a higher level, this new era is your golden opportunity.
- Sustainability: Businesses now must recognize the haphazard and tenuous nature of success which is measured over the short runs or seasonal terms. In a business environment comprised of evolving and transitioning realities, every business core value must be demonstrated and sustainable regardless of external are environment factors. This is one of the central lessons of the past 60 months.
- Accountability: In this new environment, someone must be actively exercising control over every aspect of the business. The essence of a relationship-driven business model is trust and transparency. These elements will only occur when a value driven broker is the supreme commander, the symphony director and the boss. Agents are either part of a successful brokerage team that can generate sustainable profits and dependable incomes, or they are off the bus.
- Transparency: Consumer trust cannot be purchased, and it cannot be build upon insincere representations generated in advertising and marketing campaigns. Trust comes from truth and transparency. The age of success through pulling a hood of deception over the eyes of the consumer is essentially over. Today’s consumer starts out every relationship by being cynical and then, almost universally, uses the interactivity and transparency of the Internet and social media to establish trust. Companies who are silent on the subjects of trust and transparency are deemed to be suspect. We are taken back to Eastern Airlines and their suggestion that they had to “earn their wings every day.” Real estate brokerages must not only earn their wings; they must ensure that their customers are willing to articulate the fact that they found trust.
- Core Values: Holding the line on trust requires the brokerage to establish and absolutely maintain a sustainable set of core values. Why are we here, why are we doing this? Is it to make money, is it to assist consumers to purchase and sell properties or are we doing this to promote the positive virtues of home ownership? Each of these statements must be supported by a unique set of core values. Every element of the service experience must support the firm’s core values.
- Value Proposition: The core values must be delivered within the parameters of a solid and sustainable value proposition. Value proposition is the term applied to the totality of the consumer experience. It is not acceptable to have a transparent website but agents who have not bought into the core values structure. Today’s consumer is focused on trust and integrity and will quickly identify an organization without universally accepted and promoted values. Any defect in the delivery of the promised value proposition will immediately be discovered and reported by consumers.
The concepts discussed above are really not difficult or unduly complex. They are however objectionable to real estate professionals who believe that the basis of every transaction is the power of their personality to force a consumer to act in a manner that is not in their best interests (The People Business theory). Be it price, condition, terms, environmental factors or market factors consumers, when they discover that they have been the victims of such a deal, consumers are now in a position to punish the “perp” in a manner that makes a law suit seem almost preferable.
The good news is that the passion of consumers, who have gone through an experience and transaction that was safe, trustworthy, transparent and that created a positive relationship, will be more than sufficient to carry the reputation of any brokerage into a very successful future. This is the Promised Land.
Brokerages are now facing a split in the road. Take the right turn. It is the only way to go. 

















